Red DahliaWe are not talking about tottering around in smart heels, a sharp suit and a fancy hat. What we are talking about here is acting in a dignified manner. How do you see yourself? Have you dealt with the situation with grace and dignity? Are you treating yourself and others involved with the respect that you and they deserve? If someone is yelling at you like a demented fish wife, it doesnt mean you have to sink to their level and hurl language back that